2008年12月27日 星期六

Divorce Statistics and What They Mean(Revise)

Wendy Chiang
Professor Liang
Composition class
24 December 2008

Divorce Statistics and What They Mean

Divorce Advice from the Real Craft Lady

Within “Divorce Statistics and What They Mean”, the author points some influences which divorce gives to the society. Recently, divorce becomes a common way to solve the domestic arguments and problems, and less people would like to step into marriage. Besides, the time for applying for divorcement costs almost one year, that makes people be more serious about the next marriage. However, kids who grow up in broken families have higher inclination to commit suicide. These numbers may give us warnings to rethink prudently about the married divorce.

For decades ago, divorce is not a common way to see among people. No matter what kind of difficulties, which can not be work out, between the husband and wife, they would prefer to tolerate these things rather than asking for departing each other. Nevertheless, more and more people regard this as the best and most convenient way for terminating their marriage. Due to this reason, people easily get into marriage with the persons they love, and when they finally know that some problems appear, they break up.

After divorcing with their husband or wife, they often can not be repaired anymore. Not only the couple but also their children will be harmed. Even their parents seldom notice about that. When these parents do not know how their kids feel about this thing, it is easy for these poor kids to commit suicide or allured by other bad temptations. Eventually, this kind of carelessness will cause serious problems in the society.

Indeed, these numbers are the sign to show this phenomenon which we should notice. No matter people are before or after getting marriage, they should hold the cautious attitude toward these things. This is not like a children’s game which you can cease at anytime as you want. Many people are eager to marry someone when they are thirty or forty something. They are afraid that if they do not have marriage before this age, their parents or other relatives would keep talking about this issue. That is not the right attitude. If you do not have enough determination to start your marriage, then there is not necessary to be hurry about that.

References
B Steel (2007, June 6). In Socyberty. From http://www.socyberty.com/Advice/Divorce-Statistics-and-What-They-Mean.12519

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